Wednesday, January 29, 2014

"Why We Shout In Anger"
   I agree that when we get angry we seem to yell or shout to get our point across to the other person. I also agree with the quote "So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return." I agree with this quote because at some point it already happened or will happened to everyone, I also believe that even though that quote is sadly true it's also part of life it's part of an experience that rather makes you stronger or lets you rethink the things that you've done wrong.
   Even though some would say that screaming, shouting, yelling or in other words raising your voice is a stress reliever it depends to whom and how you say something that can affect different people in different ways. For example yelling at children especially young one will only teach them how to scream even though all you're trying to do is teach them a lesson. In response of yelling at a child they can become fearful and/or become yellers themselves. Yelling at your spouse of partner can result in a much bigger scandal then a child.Your spouse or partner well also become fearful and in a defensive mode and react by raising their voice so by the end of the conversation no one would have the satisfactory outcome. When yelling at someone you can say things that you don't mean and wish that you could take back what you said. 
  


http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/yelling/

Friday, January 24, 2014

Topic Of Interest

-Bullying has become a serious conflict. In today's modern day there are many more ways and forms that bullying can go on without parental knowledge. Bullying has gone to even extreme level through the years, there's multiple w eyes as to bully someone with letting others know.  These types of bullying usually will take place when kids are young and middle/high school. Events such as these causes young and tortured kids to act out in ways that No one would ever expect.
 -There are multiple ways for a bully to torture his or her victims. There are forms in ways such as cyber,physical,and emotional bullying. These types of bullying can cause young and innocent victims to do things like commit suicide. Suicides of young people is the third leading cause of death in America. "About 4,400 of young people die every year " according to CDC " for every suicide among young people there are at least 100 suicide attempts, over 14% of high school have considered suicide and about 7% have attempted for reasons of bullying". "Bully victims are between 2 to 9 times more likely to considered suicide then non-victims", according to studies done by Yale University.