Wednesday, January 29, 2014

"Why We Shout In Anger"
   I agree that when we get angry we seem to yell or shout to get our point across to the other person. I also agree with the quote "So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return." I agree with this quote because at some point it already happened or will happened to everyone, I also believe that even though that quote is sadly true it's also part of life it's part of an experience that rather makes you stronger or lets you rethink the things that you've done wrong.
   Even though some would say that screaming, shouting, yelling or in other words raising your voice is a stress reliever it depends to whom and how you say something that can affect different people in different ways. For example yelling at children especially young one will only teach them how to scream even though all you're trying to do is teach them a lesson. In response of yelling at a child they can become fearful and/or become yellers themselves. Yelling at your spouse of partner can result in a much bigger scandal then a child.Your spouse or partner well also become fearful and in a defensive mode and react by raising their voice so by the end of the conversation no one would have the satisfactory outcome. When yelling at someone you can say things that you don't mean and wish that you could take back what you said. 
  


http://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/yelling/

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